Wont Crank no Power to starter

When i go to start the car the starter does nothing the fuse box clicks but nothing to the starter i tore the intake off and had the starter tested it its fine i replaced the starter relay checked all the grounds and tested all the starter wires on the starter relay plug i jumped from the red wire to the purple starter wire and nothing happened i ran a wire from the battery to that purple starter wire and the starter engaged i tested the 2 yellow wires with key on that i believe to be ignition and pcm and i had 9v on the small yellow and 12v on larger one i have tried about everything i know and i cant figure it out

any help would be appreciated thanks matt