problem with park lights and the tail lights not working

The dash lights are on the same power circuit as the tail lights for safety reasons so you will know when the tail lights go out. If you have now lost just the tail lights, I would expect you have a wiring problem going to the lights. Could be front or rear. this guide can help us fix it

https://www.2carpros.com/articles/no-tail-lights-exterior-running-lights-tail-lights-out

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Where should I start to look for the problem. What color is the wire where do I start to trace the wire

You just need to follow a wiring diagram systematically until yo find the issue. You have a Lighting Control Module under the dash on the drivers side that actually controls everything. If you have a short circuit in the tail light wiring, it could have burned out the module now.

I still have all other lights thru tha car working dashboard lights brake light back up light head lights all working so can the lighting control moduler still be bad ir could it just be that tail light wire?

That is for you to determine through testing. There is no magic answer I can give you without testing anything. Someone that know something about electrical testing and circuits needs to do this. I have given you the necessary diagrams.

Ok thanks one more question should I trace the wire from the main switch and any idea what color the wire for the park light is

All the colors are right in the diagram.
The wire leaving the module, going to the rear lights is BN (brown). I would probably start at that point to determine if the issue is after the module or not. Again, if you are not familiar with electrical circuits and testing you can do more damage than good so I suggest you let the electrical expert do this.

Ok thank you so much your info was very helpful