No tail lights, park lights, or instrument cluster lights and I cannot get out of park without pushing shift lock

Did you check voltage at applicable fuses? Use a test-lite.

I wanted to add, It appears the dx and lx model are the same, ex model appears to be different as far as tail lamp wiring.

I looked at information for the sedan.

It is a sedan. I do have voltage to all fuses.

Is this vehicle an EX? You could try jumping the tail lamp relay, see if the lamps come on. The load side of relay is the line with the arrowhead, when relay is energized that line moves to the other terminal and should carry voltage to tail lamps.

At the rear on proper color wires, you could check voltage and ground.

Ok where is the tail light relay and when u say jumping taking a wire straight from the relay to the light correct

I'm talking about using a piece of automotive wiring between the two terminals on the load side of relay. If you have the ex model, the park lamp relay should be behind right side kick panel.